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Day 270

Updated: Jun 26, 2019

I’m concerned that I’m a burden to my friends. They suffer through my endless moaning about. The read my posts. I’m worried that I bug them too much or that I need too much. I talk too much. I visit too much. I text too much. I share too much.

I fear I’m taking up real estate in their minds and hearts they should be better spent on someone else. I don’t know what to do about it.

I try to think of positive things to share or funny stories when I know I’ll see them. My dark humor doesn’t always hit the desired light note. I’m not sure what else to do to prevent burdening people with my grief.

If anyone has any advice about it, please let me know. You can post below, email, or contact me via the online form on this site.


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Unknown member
Dec 11, 2018

you are concerned about the wrong things in this post

your true friends (the ones who matter, anyway) are your friends through this entire journey of life. this journey includes the good and the bad, the highs and the lows, the happy and the sad, etc.....because that is what the whole "life" experience is....a delicate balance of wonderful greatness and gut wrenching pain and misery

the friends you have (the ones who matter) are not people who only want to be with you during times of joy and convenience....they CHOOSE to be by your side at all times (this includes moments of unbelievable sorrow and pain as well as during moments of sunshine and rainbows)

let them

because i guarantee…


Unknown member
Dec 10, 2018

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